09/02/2026
Good Morning! Yesterday I had the wonderful pleasure of hearing that one of my patients is off to start college this year! I have known this young man and his family since he was a young boy. What an honor it has been for me!
That brings me to my Word of the Day - DON’T GIVE UP. Many people have heard this story of mine from when I started college at the University of Buffalo.
I was totally out of my element and overwhelmed, but tried not to let it show. For my first day while living in South Buffalo, I missed my highway exit - got lost and missed my first class!
There were soooo many people, with classes of over 200 in giant auditoriums. Just sit listen, write like mad, and look like you belong. Well, I did not (not yet) … and the results of my first exam in calculus showed by how much. I had earned under 10 (yes out of 100), and Dr McGill said “College is not for everyone - you may want to get your money back”.
I was crushed and broken … so I called Mom (hoping to get sympathy), and learned the greatest lesson of my life! Mom told me that I could give up and go live with her - not being really sympathetic, and followed quickly with DON’T GIVE UP, get help … go to the professor, tell him you are lost and ask for help (your tuition pays his salary).
I did … regularly visited teaching assistants, and met my goals. So if you are away from home for the first time, a bit overwhelmed, maybe lonely - find a friend, get the help, find the fun and DON’T GIVE UP.
PS remember ‘We cannot change the wind, but we can adjust our sails.
Have a Great Day!
PSS, My office is still looking to a skilled , fun to work with Dental Hygienist to join our team. Call Linda at (585) 377-1670!