12/10/2021
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THUMB SUCKING TODDLERS -
So last year when Zephyr was 2 ish, he would suck his thumb occasionally in the day but ALWAYS before sleeping at night.
As he turned 3 or so the day sucking stopped after 10001 reminders, but sucking his thumb at night to go to sleep didn’t.
We thought of using the horrific methods of adding all the bitter products to his thumb so he would repel it naturally, but after doing my due research I figured that’s possibly the worst thing I could do to him.
Kids suck their thumbs between 0-2 for various reasons. It helps soothe them and ease their anxiety in stressful moments.
But if not stopped by 4 it can lead to a disfigured jaw and wonky teeth that then can lead to breathing issues and a lot more.
At the same time, taking hard core measures can make them more anxious.
As a parent I’ve been going crazy trying to get him to break the ‘bad habit’ , cause that’s all it is now…… a habit !
Now we know as adults, that breaking any of our own bad habits is super tough, so let’s not expect overnight miracles with our kids.
Breaking the thumb sucking habit isn’t easy, but it’s extremely necessary!
What we’ve done with him…..
- we’ve watched videos together on what happens to children’s mouths when they suck their thumb.
- we’ve had consistent dialogues on the consequences of sucking.
- we’ve taken him to the dentist ( ) who showed him a Mould of a human mouth and showed him what happens to the teeth and jaw when he sucks it.
So now, since the past ten days, bed time has been a great struggle. But while he is flipping out and so restless and desperate to suck his thumb, we CALMLY and PATIENTLY reiterate the consequences to him, we sooth him while he’s hyper, it’s not always easy, but we’ve been successful ( touchwood a billion times 😅😄)
Every night he still tries to suck … we continue the same process. We get him to fidget with our ears or use his fingers to touch a part of our body so he can feel calm.
I repeat … breaking a bad habit isn’t easy … not for an adult or child….
But … it can be done … but it needs CONSISTENCY, COMMITMENT and PATIENCE from the parent.
Do you agree ? How did u break the habit ?