10/11/2022
Boys will be boys; A brain-dump 🧠
“Boys will be boys”
A phrase first recorded in 1589. Originating from the latin sentence roughly translating to “Children will be children and do childish things”.
The phrase was initially used to describe the naughty and mischievous actions of young boys. Later, the same phrase was sometimes used to laugh off the silly or vulgar demeanor of which men behave when they get together.
It is now being used to shame men for their “toxic masculinity”.
Men are not naturally gentle and well behaved. The idea of wanting men to be harmless baffles me. Why would you want harmless men? Is this world we live in going to treat them fairly? Is this world going to offer them and privileges for being weak? NO, it isn’t! You’re a fool if you think so.
Men should be dangerous. Maybe women too. True virtue and wisdom come from being a dangerous monster, yet having that under control. Having dove into yourself and truly discovered your potential for pure malevolence and then having that potential tamed.
Why would we want harmless men? What happens when things go south? Can we count on those harmless men to rise up to the occasion?
Harmless men get eaten in this world. They get eaten in the job market, in abusive relationships, and even in the slightest debate with a well articulated individual.
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