09/30/2026
“It’s my wedding, and I’ll cry if I want to…”
Absolutely.
It’s your wedding. You choose the dress, the flowers, the food, the music and everything in between.
But here’s the question I sometimes wonder about…
Why did you invite 150 people?
Because those 150 people aren’t extras in your show.
They’re your parents, grandparents, children, siblings, friends and the people who have shown up because they love you.
Yes, it’s your wedding.
But once you invite a room full of people to celebrate with you, you’re also a host.
A five-year-old, a twenty-five-year-old and a ninety-five-year-old are going to experience the same room very differently.
That doesn’t mean you have to please everyone. It simply means there’s something rather lovely about looking around the room and thinking:
“These people are here because they matter to us. Let’s make sure they feel welcome.”
Because perhaps the best weddings aren’t the ones where the couple gets absolutely everything they want.
Perhaps they’re the ones where everyone leaves feeling glad they came.
Just a thought from someone who’s watched a few weddings unfold over the years. ❤️